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I hate this time of year So...I got pretty pissed off this weekend. David came by on Thursday because apparently, my mother had called him and asked him to be sure that he come by this weekend cause she felt bad that he left without dinner the week before. So he came. That night...she calls my sis to her room and they talked for a short while but me and Dave thought nothing of it. This was something normal. When she came back up though...she called down David, wanting to talk to him alone. He came back upstairs about an hour later, told me that my mom wanted to talk to me and that he was going for a walk. This was about 1am-ish at the time so I had some idea about what was coming. It went on, and on and on and on for close to an hour. The whole spiel about responsibility, what the hell were you thinking? Are you stupid? What's wrong with you? Do you think he would get in trouble for you? Why would you risk your future like that? You don't really think he would try to take the blame do you? Why do you hang out with his friends so much lately? Do you really think a guy like him would hang around nice folks? You think it matters that there was no risk? A guy like him, you really think he wouldn't do something like this again? Etc, etc, etc, etc. Yes, some are good points. Yes, some I shoud listen to. But I had JUST gotten this same lecture almost word for word from my sis a few days before and I wasn't in the mood to sit through the same thing again so of course, I did something stupid and opened my big mouth to try and defend myself. If there's something that a parent hates the most, is when they're kid has the TEMERITY to try and stand up for themselves during a lecture. This only served to make it worse and it just...went on and on and on. It was long, it wasn't pretty, we'll just leave it at that. By the time she was through with me...David still wasn't back. I went to my room, out onto the verandah and paced for another hour-ish while I thought and ranted in my head. My god was I ever pissed... David came back in a while later, we chilled out on my verandah (love that thing) and just talked for a while about everything. It wasn't bad, proved to me that my defense of him to my mom was accurate because I seemed to be right about the fact that just as I did this favor for him, he would do such things for me even without being asked. He posed a hypothetical situation to me to try and show me to what extent he thought my mother's thoughts of him to be incorrect. Say on one of the many days when I seem to end up walking cause I missed the last bus at the station, I get jumped, mugged and beaten up. Say furthermore, that I knew this person lived around a certain area. Would he take care of it? Was it even a question? Whether I asked him to or not, whether I told him not to, the situation would be taken care of. Whether the other guy got the shit beaten out of him, mugged, robbed, whatever would happen, it would be taken care of and he would make sure that the score was settled regardless of what had to be done. That's the kind of friend that I had in him. One who is more about getting things done and to hell with the consequences. So basically, we talked, came to the realization that no, he shouldn't have asked ME of all of his friends to do this favor for him but that pretty much everything else that my mom had said about him and his friends was just garbage. Having vented for a freaking long time...we had pretty much gotten it out of our systems. We had a Disney moviethon last night. Starting with Hercules, Beauty and the Beast and The Lion King. I was in a strange mood, sis and mom were out of the house...so I started singing along/speaking along with the movies as they went XD. From David's reactions, there can be NOTHING in the world funnier than hearing me sing a classic Disney song in a falsetto XD. Rofl...or you know those songs that have more than one person singing? I sing all the parts XD That was very amusing...and I've got to say a few things about it. First off, I'm surprised as heck that I remember so many of the words...after all, it'd been ten years or more for some of these movies and I still know about 70% of the lines and lyrics off by heart. Some great moments had to be rediscovering Meg's voice in Hercules. God that girl had a sexy voice...and that song she sings...duno the title but she's singing about how she refuses to fall in love again? GREAT SONG. Pain and Panic's line, "we are WORMS! Pitiful, pitiful WORMS!!" while bowing down cracked me up SOOOOO bad. In Beauty and the Beast...it was interesting noting that a lot of the lyrics that I THOUGHT I knew as a kid was wrong XD. I still think the Beast looked fruity when he changed to human :P. And the Lion King...man, what can I say about that? Today sucked donkey balls though. Bad enough that we had to spend the day at my cousin's...but on top of that, we (me and two other cousins who had come from the states and Niagra-ish respectively) spent the better part of the afternoon/night pruning the trees. That was NOT fun. Now I have a bunch of new scratches on my arms but at least now I KNOW where they're from. They itch... So there was my weekend. A bit of good in there in the form of Disney inspired respite and talking to Juliette as I wrote this (har har XD) but the majority of it was pure hell. I can't really put into words how indescribably pissed off I was at my mom that night while pacing on the verandah. I don't think that I've ever so much wanted OUT of this bloody house. I was so mad...I swore a lot that night and it's been popping up more than usual this weekend but I'm cutting it off again so no worries. I think that's about it...I think I'll go now. |